The matchmaker usually appears at 10:30am or 7pm, but your tamagotchi has to be 6 to 8 years old for her to start visiting. If it is any younger, then you just have to wait a few days. And if you tama is already 6 or 7 and she still doesn't appear, then it might be a late marriage of 8 years old. (Trust me, some people have had that happen to them! ) Hope this answered you question!