can't connect need help

can i have some advice my brother and i have got a tama each and can't seem to connect

I havnt no instructions <3

We're gonna need more info than that to help you out more, like what versions they are, first off. I find this helpful regardless: https://www.tamatalk.com/IB/index.php?showtopic=163511 (the connection guide, under Tamagotchi Tips and Tricks). If they are listed as ones that can connect with each other, and maybe it's a matter involving the infrared ports, just make sure nothing is blocking them. Here's the link for all the instruction manuals: https://www.tamatalk.com/IB/index.php?showtopic=116745 (go to The Library-->TT Reference Section-->instruction manuals).