Posted 10 November 2013 - 06:24 PM
Posted 15 November 2013 - 01:42 PM
im beginning to get very glad that I left the case open. I dont think i can reopen once i cancel.
4 days to go the distance of 3 driving hours sounds like enough time and then some, especially if it was on the truck when she said it was!
im willing to give it another week as the case has to be settled (or raised into a claim) by the 28th. but still... really dont think i will ever see it at this point.
Posted 15 November 2013 - 03:05 PM
Posted 15 November 2013 - 07:44 PM
It was the only one on ebay with the pretty background too, the rest are plain. which isnt the hugest deal, but thats part of why i picked it. and the good feedback they had.
but like i said, ive already been looking around for other ones. didnt tell the seller that but i have.
maybe it will suprise me and show up on monday or tuesday or something.... i dont know if ill be able to buy the story if the seller tells me it got delivered back to their house again. at that point ill demand a refund and tell them if it does arrive i will re-pay them for it.
Ive never had a problem before though, and supposedly neither have they, this is so unusual... and for such a close distance.
Posted 18 November 2013 - 09:08 PM
Posted 18 November 2013 - 09:34 PM
Its not being mailed to a P.O. Box or something like that is it? Or the seller does have the right address? (some sellers only ship to confirmed paypal addresses, not the ebay address, pain in the toosh if it goes to an old address...)
Posted 19 November 2013 - 03:14 PM
about to message them saying ill give it til friday but if i still dont get it ill need a refund. i dont think ill buy their story if they try to say that it got misdelivered to their house again...
Just sent them a message now... asking for refund if i dont get it by friday. I think ive been more than patient, right? overall its had 5 weeks to get here (come Friday).
Edited by Claiken, 19 November 2013 - 03:21 PM.
Posted 19 November 2013 - 04:01 PM
Giving them until Friday is very kind of you. Keep your ground if they said they mailed it or whatever. It could take a few days or much longer getting money back depending on how they do it. If they don't refund, make a separate report about the user not shipping/ following ebay rule. Those Terms of Service are in stone and if they change them, they send out an email.
Also, not everybody does yet... But I do believe its a requirement to have a tracking number or confirmation number on pricey items. (or a very strong recommendation anyway) I could be crazy but I could have sworn I read it somewhere.
Posted 19 November 2013 - 10:31 PM
Might think twice about asking for it next time though, thats for sure.
Maybe if they do give me a story like that again ill ask them to get me a tracking number when they 'remail' it should that story come up again... it would be bad business i would think to charge me extra for it at this point right?
Edited by Claiken, 19 November 2013 - 10:32 PM.
Posted 20 November 2013 - 10:37 PM
Posted 21 November 2013 - 07:30 PM
Posted 22 November 2013 - 01:58 AM
unless i get it tomorrow... still one more day...
then i guess if i dont hear back from the seller even still, i have till thursday to either cancel it or make it a full paypal claim. maybe they want paypal to pay me back instead of them themselves?? Hard to say.
Posted 22 November 2013 - 11:22 PM
Posted 24 November 2013 - 09:57 PM
Will probably further it to a claim tomorrow if i dont hear from them. just messaged them to say that ill be making it a claim by wednesday night at the latest (i have until thursday night but i want to be safe).
now i dont know if a claim means they are forced to pay me back ,or if paypal directly pays me back (aka the seller walks away with extra money).
ugh... i just wanted my dino that ive been wishing for for so long!!
Posted 25 November 2013 - 09:42 AM
Since they live not too far away, can't you just discuss it in court?
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Posted 25 November 2013 - 05:03 PM
Court might be overkill. Even small claims court.
Is it an option for you to meet them half way somewhere? There is always that chance they don't show up...
Posted 26 November 2013 - 02:27 AM
I just dont know what ill do if like i said, like even a month down the road it ends up somehow, finally making its way. you know? do i be honest and tell the seller it came, even though ive used the money on other things already? not sure how i would handle it at that point.
I would be the first negative, or neutral feedback on their profile!
i got a package today, and at a glance it said "nano" on it, so i thought "could it be????". Nope, it was something else i had ordered that also contained a broken/for parts nano.
probably wouldnt take the chance on meeting them half way, cuz like you said, they likely wouldnt show up. havent escalated it to a case yet. figured give it a weekday in case the seller is one of those weekday only ebayers to see my message and give the chance for them to just opt to refund me on their own. probably will tomorrow night tho. still havent heard. Rage mode commencing.