I want more training bars but my tama wont bleep at me often, so i cant get many. ^_^ is there a way to, like, get him more needy so he needs to be comforted and punished more often?
You won't miss any training opportunities if you pause a Connection, since that will simply temporarily suspend the game entirely (aside from the clock.) I am betting that the same holds true for Connexions and Pluses though the stop-clock method.
You will always get enough training opportunities, so don't worry. Note that teens require the most training, so if yours is still a toddler, just be patient.