untill your tama is 4, then it will turn into a adult. when ur tama is 7, the matchmaker will come. but dont pause ur tama, because if u do, it wont grow! when u go to sleep, hit the middle button. it will show the time and the clok. hit the first button and the last button, like ur turning off the sound, and it will say "SET" and flashing numbers. keep going untill u get to the hours. make sure the AM and PM thing is thier. Then set ur hour thing to 2 am, and it will fall asleep. then when u wanna wake it up, do the same steps, except 10 AM.
Hope I helped!!!
Alimania