Parent Divorces

I'm not saying I hate m that my parents are divorced, but I hate how it turns out. I barley ever see my dad, and my mom hates when I say I miss him. I don't care for the guy my mom dates too. My dad had another child with his girlfriend and she just has random fits about how much she misses me, and I REALLY don't want to cause trouble. Is there anybody else here that has a similar situation? Has divorced parents or... a parent that passed? My school has some kind of program, where you are supposed to discuss this stuff, but when your there, you just talk about gossip w/ your friends, so lets talk about it here. One other thing, you can also talk about never meeting one of your parents, or if you want to, if it troubles you, being adopted. Thank you for visiting here, and be honest, nobody will punish you for speaking the truth. And I know, it sucks.

I'm adopted.

My friend's parents are divorced.

I know my biological parents.

My friend's dad tends to get mad at her just because.

Sorry the message was so long, i wanted to get it all out.

BTW: Do you ever run to your room, lock the door and... cry? I never cry, my parents are the only thing i cry about, and my sis and my cat, but not usually for him.

My parents are divorced. They got divorced when I was 3. Now Im 11, and sorta over it although I dont really have a father figure in my life. Mum has a boyfriend, dad has a wife and they're both living very happy lives now. So Im not sad anymore.

I live with my mum and see my dad every month or two. I do start missing him sometimes, but he's not really a true friend of mine. We've got nothing to talk about at all. All I do when I go to his house is play board games with him for like 15 mins, then he has to go and I just watch Foxtel [i think thats called Cable in America] all day. Its boring.

I still remember the day that mum and him broke up, there was fighting and yelling everywhere. My cat got scared and ran outside and I ran out crying. My brother was playing video games, until my dad came into his room. This is what dad told my brother ''Come on son, lets go and leave mum to cry''. I still cant forgive him for that, and most likely never will.

And, before they got divorced, my grandma and grandpa were gonna come and live here in Australia, a better country [They live in Russia at the moment]. But, as soon as mum and dad got divorced, the opportunity went BAM. The government started thinking that my mum would abandon them and then everything would go bad. I also cant forgive my dad for doing that.

So, Ive been through it. Hard, but you get over it.

Oh god. My parents got divorced when I was in 5th grade. It ruined my life. ._.;

There's so much crap going on now.. and my parents both hate each others guts. Dx

My parents were fighting over custody of the kids.. and my brother said he wanted to live with my dad.. and I wanted to live with my mom. But of course they didn't listen to anything I said, and they didn't want to separate the children. Since he was older I was forced to live with my dad. ._.; God. I hate that lady, and I always will.

I sound so stupid now. >.>;; Ahwell.

My parents are thankfully still together. I remember when I was 8 my dad threw a spaz and packed his bags and ran away and lived in his car for 3 days. Those 3 days I just cried pretty much non-stop.

I can't imagine my parents not together. Its their little spats are what make them so loveable.

I lived with my (biological) mom (A single mom.) for the first five years of my life.

Then, she and her boyfriend (met over the internet, hah.) got married, and he adopted me.

I never met my real dad.

And I never want too.

That's that.

Mom and dad are in the process of divorce right now.

I'm grateful, as soon as they separate, I'll be slightly more of a free person.

Not explaining any more than that 8D

Oh, Martine. D:

Don't worry, there are so many other kids in your place who feel the same way. Just because your parents don't love each other, doesn't mean they don't love you.

I know that sounds totally cliche but it's also true. I am so grateful that my parents are still happy together but remember that, although divorce is sad, they're better off with people who they actually love now. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all - you are the result of a once very happy couple, and now they've moved on and will still always love you. <3

My parents are divorced also. I feel your pain. Everyone tells you that it's not your fault but you just can't help but think that.

But were your parents fighting alot? If so, maybe it's better that they're divorced. That's what I always remind myself when I start feeling upset about the whole divorce.

My mom is starting to date also. I'm so upset about it. But you have to remember that she has been putting you first most of her life so now it's her turn.

I bet both of your parent's love you very much so I'm 98% sure they will never ever do anything that will seriously harm you or put you in alot of

danger.

I told you guys, I don't mind my parents divorce, just what happened because of it!

I told you guys, I don't mind my parents divorce, just what happened because of it!

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Don't forget that you asked ppl to share their thoughts in this thread.

Not all the replies are direct to you.

Some of the posts are meant for other members who do care about their parents divorce

Don't forget that you asked ppl to share their thoughts in this thread.
Not all the replies are direct to you.

Some of the posts are meant for other members who do care about their parents divorce :furawatchi:

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I of course know that, I was referring to the ones to me.

I'm fine with my parents divorced. But every time I see my dad, my mom screams bloody murder about how much of a coward and...yeah. Not allowed to say some stuff on TT.

And Immeidatly when they divorced, they went on dating sites. I'm fine with it, but on my dad's laptop I see "Sexy singles and soft core porn"....

Come one ._.

^ Wow.

My parents are divorced too. Dx I still can't really get over it though. They just divorced....2 years ago. I know my dad's new wife. I wish I could kill her. Sad...so sad... ToT But my mom's still single and she said she'll always be single. My dad likes going on the internet and searching for...girls Dx

[SIZE=8pt]Ahh. I hate the talk of divorces. My parents got divorced when I was nine years old, and I hated it. My beloved daddy moved out and I had to live with my evil mother. She started treating my four siblings and I like her slaves and is now getting married to a man that doesn't love her.[/SIZE]

 

I don't see the fairness in life right now, but I think everyone else here whose parents have been divorced and as well as myself can get through it.

 

(I just now registered, this is my first post! Hello everyone!)

[SIZE=8pt]EDIT: Oh wow Ilovekuchipa, that's just like me except switch it. My MOM is like that, and I hate her fiancee. *shudders*[/SIZE]

My dad is wonderful though, but I don't live with him.