you don't have to have the love potion. no one knows the code for it yet for the v3. what i did was to keep connecting them as babies, toddlers, teens and then, when they got to the adult phase, they fell in love. when they were both 5 yr old, i connected them with the "present" option (note they had the 4 hearts before this) instead of giving a present, they both shook thier heads and the babies came. WELCOME LILLY AND LOLA; 2nd Gen!!!