the matchmaker comes when its eight years old and if you keep on missing it, it will turn into an old timer and than it will eventuly die.
eh.... you know what... now that I look at it the thing could be a pine christmas tree...
It would be very helpful if there were a guide to Mrs. Busybody, including what she looks like.
My tama is now 7 years old, and i don't think she's ever had a visit from the matchmaker.