I gather that you're talking about break-ups...they're not always that simple; breaking up with someone doesn't mean you were lying when you said you loved them. It just means the person or the relationship has changed and you no longer want to be in that relationship. Love isn't under people's control; it would be great if it was, but it's not. If you've stopped loving someone, you either pretend to love them or you end the relationship. Fake love hurts people more in the end, so the best thing is to end the relationship.
"Until"? When? More like if. Sometimes there is never a time to find someone. Unless you're bored and have nothing else to do.
Not necessarily always from boredom...when you want friendship in a <3 way. But if you just want to "find someone" for the sake of finding someone, without real friendship, then that is not real love - that is the pinnacle of boredom.
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Edited by TamaMum, 18 October 2013 - 01:35 AM.
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