When your Tama evovles into an adult, wait 48 hours. Trust me, it'll be worth the wait! Then, scroll down to the TV icon, select it, then scroll down to "Dating Show". The matchmaker (or her substitute..what's her name?) will show up, and show you a character. Then, you will get the option of marrying or canceling. You can do it three times a day, then wait 24 hours. If you don't want to wait, just set the time to 6:59 AM,wait one minute, then try again. By the way, if the matchmaker doesn't show up, and her sub. offers you a jeweltchi, and you marry her or him, you will get a space family (well, i'm pretty sure!).Good luck!