does it hurt to have a baby

[hkmymlg]

I think if women giving birth are afriad of pain then taking a nap while it happens, you probably won't feel a thing. But I really don't know. I'm not pregnant or married! I'm only in 6th grade for pete's sake!lol

i am in 7th ^_^

 

[Missbehave]

There's too many ppl in the world.....I think people should start adopting poor, starving babies, that'll be nice.....

 

[Caterpie]

There's too many ppl in the world.....I think people should start adopting poor, starving babies, that'll be nice.....

Yeah.....

And I guess it would hurt...

 

[MsKtty89]

true sorry mskitty I did not mean it like you dont know how to love I was just meant it like I would not say that.and my real grandma left my mom and my uncle abandoned in the trash as if my mom were nothing well I guess every one had there opinon just wondering boy or girl or boy and a girl and what happened to them?

Well, I didn't leave anyone abandoned in the trash, I gave them up for adoption. They were twin girls, identical.

And, as I said, I still wish I had an abortion. I'm glad I made some family happy, but I hate the thought that I had children, I don't like children at all and never felt a bond to mine. I hate what it did to my body and all the weight I am now struggling to lose (after just losing weight the year before getting pregnant and finally being a normal size). I hate knowing that some day I'll have to talk to them again.

I don't think of myself as heartless, I just think that it was something in my life I did not plan and did not (and do not) want. I have it in my head how I want things to go and they didn't go that way. A lot of people would be upset about that.

 

[baybee-x]

Again I say, it's not worth it to all. And the pain factor depends on what route you go. Some people push with no drugs at all, some use drugs and push, some have c-sections. Recovery after can really suck.
And, again, it's not worth it to all. Not everyone plans to have kids.

I'd rather get a puppy, kthx.

I'd like to have children someday. My sister is the complete opposite and never wants children. I suppose it depends how you feel about children.

 

[MsKtty89]

I'd like to have children someday. My sister is the complete opposite and never wants children. I suppose it depends how you feel about children.

I agree. To some, it'd be worth the world. To others that don't want kids, it's just a road block.

 

[TamaMum]

Let's keep focussed on the topic - pain in Childbirth.

(*I know wanting or not wanting kids is partly related to this but we are moving away from the physical into the emotional here*)

 

[Cinderpelt]

I'm sure having a baby really does hurt.

 

I'm not quite sure what I am going to do as I get older. Religiously, I have to be married before I have sex, so that's that.

 

I'm actually afraid of having sex (a little anyway). I have heard that it hurts when you have sex, too. But I'm sure having a baby is worth it all.

 

Dunno. Maybe I'll adopt.

 

Cinderpelt♥

 

[MsKtty89]

I'm sure having a baby really does hurt.  

I'm not quite sure what I am going to do as I get older. Religiously, I have to be married before I have sex, so that's that.

 

I'm actually afraid of having sex (a little anyway). I have heard that it hurts when you have sex, too. But I'm sure having a baby is worth it all.

 

Dunno. Maybe I'll adopt.

 

Cinderpelt♥

Well, if you're not going to have sex until you're married, then you have plenty of time to decide if you want to have kids. I know some religions only allow sex for procreation, not for pleasure.

The first time of sex (pain-wise) varies from person to person. I found that it did hurt a little, but not as bad as some people describe it I guess. But, I also still get sore from it sometimes, so I guess that's my thing.

Back to pain with child birth... My other friend just had a baby, but it was premature. I think it only weighed like, 1 lbs. 8 0z. Which, in a way, was good for her because she's a really skinny girl (with narrow hips) and I can't imagine her trying to push out anything bigger. So, for her, I doubt it hurt as much as for some people.

I think your hip width and the baby's size makes a difference.

 

[Missbehave]

I'm kind of off having kids, I'll hardly call them "bundle of joy" when they reach two, I don't really want kids coz of my sister

 

[kitkat2020]

where does the baby come out

 

[MsKtty89]

where does the baby come out

A baby comes out of the vagina.

Women have three holes: the urethra, vagina, and the anus. Men only have two holes, the anus and the urethra (men urinate and ejaculate out of the same hole, women have separate holes).

A baby comes out of the middle hole, the vagina.

Hope that helps. That link is a labeled female anatomy.