x.Rachel
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There are 4 of us. S, N, D and me.
S,N and D always do stuff together. At school, in front of me, they will make plans like this:
S: "N! You and D are coming to my house after school!"
Me: "..."
I have invited them over, but they always make an excuse not to come.
They make me feel bad, and say stuff like:
"Oh we're at my place, and we're having so much fun! what are you doing?"
Me: "Nothing..."
Them: "Too bad. We are doing all kinds of fun stuff."
Tehy then complain I try to make them feel bad.
I just feel really left out. If they did stuff together without me knowing, whatever.
But they boast about it, and I feel really unvalued as a friend.
I need help. This has brought me close to tears many times.
-Rachel.
S,N and D always do stuff together. At school, in front of me, they will make plans like this:
S: "N! You and D are coming to my house after school!"
Me: "..."
I have invited them over, but they always make an excuse not to come.
They make me feel bad, and say stuff like:
"Oh we're at my place, and we're having so much fun! what are you doing?"
Me: "Nothing..."
Them: "Too bad. We are doing all kinds of fun stuff."
Tehy then complain I try to make them feel bad.
I just feel really left out. If they did stuff together without me knowing, whatever.
But they boast about it, and I feel really unvalued as a friend.
I need help. This has brought me close to tears many times.
-Rachel.