Ok well i dont no how to open this so i'll get straoght to the point!
Ok well win i first went to middle school i was all like the little nice girl with a little edge : )
and thin as it started to dawn on me, the math started gettin harder, S.S is stuped, and Readin was tarible i started getting stressed. Well i dont hang around the nicest talkin people in the world, they cuzz and well yea. now in elementry school i let it slip like, never, but sometimes. now i fell like i cuzz alot. and im always mad : ( sometimes i feel like going goth : ( i dont want to cause i like light colors
But plese help me
i dont like bein sad all the time : (
Ahhh you are just like me
but not as severe.
Stress can be awful and make you sick
It's made me sick and break down a couple of times too
As you grow older the people you hang with always change.
In elementary school I was the goody-two shoes
Ex: I never said "Butt" or "shut up" and i always followed instructions
Now I hang with people (who aren't so great) that think rules are made to be broken
And the words that come out of there mouths would give my grandma a heart attack
My advise isn't to go where i went hahahah
But you can do the following to lower stress levels:
♪Rock out: listen to your favorite band. Feel bad? go metal/screamo/emo hahah just whatever makes you lose those emotions. just make sure it doesn't make you more depressed. PS Don't look for happiness... it'll come
♪Take a beauty day: (where you take a long hot shower, use favorite soaps) just make you feel gorgeous ONLY for yourself
♪Get everything done early: that way you have time for yourself
♪Don't think about it too much: the more you think about it, the more freaked you become
♪Exercise: take a little walk around the neighborhood. activity relieves a lot of stress
♪Write it down: write a poem expressing difficulties, or journal it (my preference is poetry)
♪Try something you've never done before: it'll get your mind off of everything
♪If you struggle in classes: take a deep breath, if you weren't good at it you wouldn't have made it here! So what's the problem? If you are out of practice, ask for help.
NEVER EVER forget to ask questions. People say "teachers love it" Well who cares what the teachers think? It does you a world of good. I ask the most questions in my Algebra 2 Honors class and No one thinks i'm dumb or a teachers pet... at least not to my face hahah, heh I get all A's... you want to know why? I ask. Plain and Simple.
♪Trust your gut: if you feel iffy about the people you hang with... they may end up being poison to you.
My experiance: You NEVER want to be poisoned... meaning your "friends" are poison to you.. they wear you down and leave you with nothing. I've been used so much and much much more. Basically a lot of my problems last year were due to bad "friends" I'm not gonna go deep into detail but you don't need them. You'll find your best friend like i did. I can talk to her/him and trust her/him without fear of judgement. Walk away... never go down that path
♪Make good decisions: Feel unsure about something? Ask your parents. To me, middle school is a bonding time with your 'rents because there's so much you learn that's not school related. Issues will be brought up that you've never dreamed of seeing or encountering. Talk with your parents. Great relationship already? Don't break it and keep it strong. Don't let snobby people ruin it
♪NO SOCIAL LIFE: haha I'm just kidding. If school is enough on your plate currently, then don't worry about friends. Once you get in the hang of everything, then friend time will come naturally
♪Manage your plate: Don't overstuff yourself... it adds on stress. Just because schools say you have to join clubs doesn't mean it's true. do what you like
♪HAVE FUN!: the more you worry the worse it all becomes. Middle school is fun once you get used to it. You learn lessons and learn new edumacational (haha) things.
♪Be yourself: don't try and fit in. It makes everything worse. Don't look too hard for anything (friends, your true self, etc..) it will come naturally! Do what you like and ignore those who don't like because if you think about it, there is NO one who won't like what you do... there're just too many people
Okay... enough lmao... I went too far. Sorry!
It's all good though
Chill deary, it'll be fun