Hmm, even thought you did bump up this topic, I agree with you 100%. We do not need to please people and fit in. I am my own person. I will NOT try to "fit in" with the crowd. Because at my school, the populat crowd is a bunch of ghetto wannabe "gangsters" and you can bet I will NEVER become gangster!FITTING IN?! BEING THE SAME??!! yeah right!! fitting in and being "popular" is the most stupidest thing ever! me? i'm the leader and unique girl at my school, thats what my teacher said. no offense but why do you wear make up to school? like who cares what people think of your apperience?i have curly hair and no one has curly hair at my school! thats why i love it!
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No. No it isn't.FITTING IN?! BEING THE SAME??!! yeah right!! fitting in and being "popular" is the most stupidest thing ever!
Just because someone wears make-up or likes to make themself look nice doesn't mean they are trying to impress people. Usually people wear make-up etc for their own benefit to feel good about themselves, it doesn't mean they wear it to be 'popular' or anything like that.FITTING IN?! BEING THE SAME??!! yeah right!! fitting in and being "popular" is the most stupidest thing ever! me? i'm the leader and unique girl at my school, thats what my teacher said. no offense but why do you wear make up to school? like who cares what people think of your apperience?i have curly hair and no one has curly hair at my school! thats why i love it!
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now how is fitting in a good thing? No i would not run around my school naked? your missing the point i'm trying to say here. fitting in isnt that important at all actually...i consider myself not a followert and i stand out by the clothes i wear and how i fix my hair.....i guess i'm a trend setter than? even though i hate trends.. anyways being the same is soo boring and lifes to short to be "the same" or "cool"No. No it isn't. Being accepted or fitting in is indeed one of the most important parts of society. It's why people are social animals.
There are things you would never, every do. Because fitting in is important. You wouldn't run through your school naked and kiss everyone that comes your way, would you? No. No you would not. You would be waaaaayyy individual, but you would also probably never ever forget doing that. And there are many many things people never do, just out of principle.
Being "popular" doesn't have to be something you consider important. However, I believe the term popular is now an illusion people put themselves under to help dislike people who have a lot of friends and create a built-in "evil" for everyone to hate.
And everyone who says they're popular say they aren't a snob. Duh, that's common train of thought.
Popular people = snobby people/evil
Popular people = nice people with a lot of friends
IT'S A PARADOX!
D;
Now on to personal stuff----
I'm a pretty normal person. I'm not pretty, and I don't really like people. I don't know how on earth I would be a social person who has to interact with people on a much bigger scale then I do. I can't even stand dances. :|
You can never actualy 'be the same'- even if you did you hair the same, had the same clothes, ect. as the next girl you wouldn't be the same- you can't be because you are you- wheather you are acting fake or not.now how is fitting in a good thing? No i would not run around my school naked? your missing the point i'm trying to say here. fitting in isnt that important at all actually...i consider myself not a followert and i stand out by the clothes i wear and how i fix my hair.....i guess i'm a trend setter than? even though i hate trends.. anyways being the same is soo boring and lifes to short to be "the same" or "cool"
♥Mamitchi
who am i to judge people? the only one that can judge is god. but anyways i was just saying i like to be a leader not a follower.You can never actualy 'be the same'- even if you did you hair the same, had the same clothes, ect. as the next girl you wouldn't be the same- you can't be because you are you- wheather you are acting fake or not.
Some people try to hard and when you do that you can create lasting problems. You can push people away, you may start judging people that 'are the same' and most of all thing that the main stream is 'the same'.
I wasn't saying you do just saying that when you put people in groups- whether it be sticking out or being the 'same' and 'normal'- there's more of a tendency to be more judgemental.who am i to judge people? the only one that can judge is god. but anyways i was just saying i like to be a leader not a follower.
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ohh sorry....lol but yeah to stay on topic i wouldnt be a follower in a million years.. and sorry for the little misunderstanding tamaw/pants! i dont put people in groups, its just some poeple think fitting in and copying other people is good.....I wasn't saying you do just saying that when you put people in groups- whether it be sticking out or being the 'same' and 'normal'- there's more of a tendency to be more judgemental.
There's nothing wrong with being a leader- I would consider myself to have more of a leader personality too. :]
It's no problem. :]ohh sorry....lol but yeah to stay on topic i wouldnt be a follower in a million years.. and sorry for the little misunderstanding tamaw/pants! i dont put people in groups, its just some poeple think fitting in and copying other people is good.....
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I am popular but I hate it when people automatically brand popular people as 'snotty' as you put it. I am not snotty and neither is any of the other populars in our class. Please don't put it harshly. Being popular has nothing to do with being snotty.Popular?It depends on what your defenition of popular is.
If you mean that snotty group that doesn't talk to you if you don't have a name-brand logo, then no.
But if you mean someone who has lots of awsome friends, then yes.
No, I'm sorry, Fallen Raine, but I really have had enough of you picking at everything I say and turning it into something not nice.Wait, bratztroxg, didn't you just say in another topic about cliques that "Labels are for soup cans"? Surprise, surprise - 'Popular' is technically a label.Half of all 'popular' people are classified as snotty and bratty because they hang out with their friends only and think their popularity gives them the right to label anything that moves and get away with it without getting shot back at.
No, I'm not 'popular'. I'm just there.
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