the matchmaker will usuly come when your tama is at the age of5 or older. the matchmaker could come at any time and when it does come your tama will make a noise. even though the matchmaker can come at any time the most commen times are 11 am, 7 pm, and 3 pm. the matchmaker will come 9 times at all if you refouse all of them inless you change the time backwards you can make it come whenever you want. hope i helped adela1996