Mametchi_Queen
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First:
1) I was six years old when my parents kicked me out of their bed, and taught me to sleep in my own bed and room. Now, my brother is 8, and he still is **invited** by my parents to do this. Whenever I suggest he sleeps in the expensive loft bed they got him, I get yelled at. wtf???
2) I was six years old and my parents were constantly enforcing the fact that I had to clean my room and keep it that way. Now, my brother is 8, and my parents are completely oblivious to his room, with lego, leaves and food crumbs matted into the carpet, his 'nature area' being shoved on to the floor cuz he needs that space for his homework, which ends up curled up underneath his bed with an ice cream bowl from last weekend and a yogurt cup from who knows when. Again - wtf???
This is really annoying because my parents are just letting him run wild, and I can't take it. My maternal instincts tell me to replace my mother in the lecture of cleanliness, enforce chores and the simple 'you have a bed and room and you're old enough to live there'.
How do I convince my parents that they are almost ruining their son and get them to fix it?
1) I was six years old when my parents kicked me out of their bed, and taught me to sleep in my own bed and room. Now, my brother is 8, and he still is **invited** by my parents to do this. Whenever I suggest he sleeps in the expensive loft bed they got him, I get yelled at. wtf???
2) I was six years old and my parents were constantly enforcing the fact that I had to clean my room and keep it that way. Now, my brother is 8, and my parents are completely oblivious to his room, with lego, leaves and food crumbs matted into the carpet, his 'nature area' being shoved on to the floor cuz he needs that space for his homework, which ends up curled up underneath his bed with an ice cream bowl from last weekend and a yogurt cup from who knows when. Again - wtf???
This is really annoying because my parents are just letting him run wild, and I can't take it. My maternal instincts tell me to replace my mother in the lecture of cleanliness, enforce chores and the simple 'you have a bed and room and you're old enough to live there'.
How do I convince my parents that they are almost ruining their son and get them to fix it?