Wine_Deer
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Well, one of my really close best friends, lets call her J, is really great. I love her and I love hanging out with her and talking to her.
But.
She hangs out with a lot of people, and I usually am by myself. It seems like everyone likes her more than me or some people like her but don't like me. I'm not saying it's a big problem, but sometimes I get jealous of her and act like a jerk because she's always doing fun stuff, and people always wanna hang out with her. She's friends with a lot of guys, but I'm only friends with like, a couple. A lot of her guy friends actually dislike me a lot, even though I've never been mean to them.
She has problems in her life with family and with a couple friends and she's sorta self conscious, and I try helping her through that (she helps me through my problems too) so I'm not saying that her life is perfect but it's kinda hard hanging out with her or texting her when she's always hanging out with people I wish I could be friends with (but they ignore me) and it kinda seems like she outshines me with everything. She has a ton more friends than me, she's way prettier than me, she's just better than me and I'm only better than her at school (usually). I know school's important but, I feel kinda.... not good when she says she's hanging out with (insert person that hates me but I wanna get to know them here) and stuff.
She doesn't brag or anything though.
Please don't see me as a jerk or something, I didn't really know how to put this
Basically, I'm really jealous of ma best friend and it sometimes makes me act like a huge jerk and I hate that I do that.
Help?
---Wine_Deer
But.
She hangs out with a lot of people, and I usually am by myself. It seems like everyone likes her more than me or some people like her but don't like me. I'm not saying it's a big problem, but sometimes I get jealous of her and act like a jerk because she's always doing fun stuff, and people always wanna hang out with her. She's friends with a lot of guys, but I'm only friends with like, a couple. A lot of her guy friends actually dislike me a lot, even though I've never been mean to them.
She has problems in her life with family and with a couple friends and she's sorta self conscious, and I try helping her through that (she helps me through my problems too) so I'm not saying that her life is perfect but it's kinda hard hanging out with her or texting her when she's always hanging out with people I wish I could be friends with (but they ignore me) and it kinda seems like she outshines me with everything. She has a ton more friends than me, she's way prettier than me, she's just better than me and I'm only better than her at school (usually). I know school's important but, I feel kinda.... not good when she says she's hanging out with (insert person that hates me but I wanna get to know them here) and stuff.
She doesn't brag or anything though.
Please don't see me as a jerk or something, I didn't really know how to put this
Basically, I'm really jealous of ma best friend and it sometimes makes me act like a huge jerk and I hate that I do that.
Help?
---Wine_Deer