SonicBlades
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My little brothers just got home from the dentist and one of them (Joey) told me their dad (my stepdad) was being very rude to them while he drove them there. Joey said he was driving about 10 miles over the speed limit and was "jerking the car around" while yelling at them.
He basically told them they're losers and will grow up to be poor no matter what they do. He said he was going to make them quit their art classes at school because he thinks art is for losers even though both of my brothers love art. He then said some rude things about me because I still live at home, and said my mom should have kicked me out of the house the moment I turned 18. He then told my brothers if they told anyone the things he said to them they'd "regret it for the rest of their lives."
Joey felt safe telling me but he made me promise not to tell our mom what my stepdad said and was doing. I now feel like I shouldn't have promised that. No parent should talk to their children like that, and the way Joey said he was driving is just dangerous. I told Joey he should tell our mom himself, but he said he didn't want to because that will just make his dad angry if he finds out which will only make things worse. To me, this is bullying. It wouldn't be right for some kid at school to say these things to them. Why should it be okay for a parent to?
He basically told them they're losers and will grow up to be poor no matter what they do. He said he was going to make them quit their art classes at school because he thinks art is for losers even though both of my brothers love art. He then said some rude things about me because I still live at home, and said my mom should have kicked me out of the house the moment I turned 18. He then told my brothers if they told anyone the things he said to them they'd "regret it for the rest of their lives."
Joey felt safe telling me but he made me promise not to tell our mom what my stepdad said and was doing. I now feel like I shouldn't have promised that. No parent should talk to their children like that, and the way Joey said he was driving is just dangerous. I told Joey he should tell our mom himself, but he said he didn't want to because that will just make his dad angry if he finds out which will only make things worse. To me, this is bullying. It wouldn't be right for some kid at school to say these things to them. Why should it be okay for a parent to?