Nothing is going to change if you blame the problem on girls. Which I really feel like you are.
"Well its the way of life. just cause you have to go through painful stuff it doesent give them the right to get away with stuff. Its tough to be a boy to, tougher when your a kid. " Um, so you're saying that girls shouldn't be able to do guy things because guys can't do "girly" things? That doesn't sound right. When it comes to "painful stuff" most guys say that they've never been happier to be male. I don't blame them.
Girls can be very, very cruel to one another. Most guys seem to be able to beat each other up without much consequence. Just a personal observation, actually, since one of my guy friends seems to be put under constant stress with his friend when it comes to me. They're still friends.
How come it's always the boys who are doing something wrong? Girls can be made fun of for having barbies too, you know. It's not like being a girl automatically free to do whatever you want. Girls can be made fun of for liking barbie and bratz. But you won't be made fun of for doing guyish things? Seems like it.
I'm actually made fun of BY boys. So maybe girls aren't always the problem, hmmmm?
When girls say "oh he's so shallow! He only likes me for my looks!" What if he does? It's not like people HAVE to be in a relationship with someone they actually like on the inside. Then that would be a correct on the girl's part and she could dump the slime. Especially when you get older. I actually don't know many girls who ONLY like guys for their outsides, although looks are a factor. But it's true, and there are girls who only like guys for their outsides. That doesn't mean that automatically a girl is being hippocritical when she says that.
"That was then, this is now?" But there is not only us. There is not only now.
My post is only a flame if you take it to be one. Consider my points.
I would probably have a few more things to add but I'm kinda tired.