Like this
If you use a matchmaker, simple. they kiss, have some fireworks and a party, and the baby comes on your screen.
If you connect, the tamas will shake their heads as if they're saying no for about 6 seconds, then the male will go to the female's house, they're both on the bottom of the screen, unlike in a normal connection. they kiss, lights out for a second or two, have fireworks and a party, then the male is in his screen. the female poops (yes, it looks like she's pooping) out 2 babies! One baby goes to the males shell, and then it's over.
So it's much cooler connecting to get babies then to use matchmaker