Durch_den_monsun
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Well, I already posted the back story to this in the bullying topic, but, back in my freshman year (senior now) I had this best friend, and we did everything together. We were sooo close, that we considered each other sisters. We could even finish each other's sentences if we wanted. There is this boy one grade lower than us, that is very, VERY attractive. Jessica had sex with him a few times, and unbeknownst to me, she had very deep, very unhealthy feelings of attachment for him. He showed interest in me, and she found out. She thought I liked him and went behind her back to be with him (he had a gf at the time), so instead of hearing my side, she dcsides to end the friendship, very publicly.
So, I leave her alone, and she continued to be very hostile towards me. She becomes best friends with a girl that HATES me, and spread rumors about me doing things of sexual nature with other boys at school (to which many people believed, and still don't like me because they think it's true) and she even resorted to cyber bullying. It's like I was a pariah and she just wouldn't stop attacking me mentally and emotionally. Then,she comes up to me and apologizes, and that SAME DAY, everything was back to normal, as if the 8 months of hostility never happened.
So what I'm asking is, would you continue to be close friends with a person who woke up every day just to hurt you? I personally always believe in second chances (I'd want one, so I have to give to get, right?), but I also feel like she went TOO far. If anyone came to me with a story like this, I'd think they're CRAZY to talk to a person that caused them so much pain, but it's different when you're in a situation like that. What do you guys think?
So, I leave her alone, and she continued to be very hostile towards me. She becomes best friends with a girl that HATES me, and spread rumors about me doing things of sexual nature with other boys at school (to which many people believed, and still don't like me because they think it's true) and she even resorted to cyber bullying. It's like I was a pariah and she just wouldn't stop attacking me mentally and emotionally. Then,she comes up to me and apologizes, and that SAME DAY, everything was back to normal, as if the 8 months of hostility never happened.
So what I'm asking is, would you continue to be close friends with a person who woke up every day just to hurt you? I personally always believe in second chances (I'd want one, so I have to give to get, right?), but I also feel like she went TOO far. If anyone came to me with a story like this, I'd think they're CRAZY to talk to a person that caused them so much pain, but it's different when you're in a situation like that. What do you guys think?