can you help me with my " friends"

[ninabab]

hmm

ok i have this friend

and she copies EVERYTHING

rite

when i turn hippyish with all the peace signs and stuff she does it!!!

then when i told her what guy i fancied she goes and acts all flirty with him

and its not just me

my other friend has this boyfriend and she always flirts with him blatently obvious infrount of her!!!



any comments/help??

please?

 

[baybee-x]

Maybe she just really likes what you enjoy. If it bothers you so much the best thing to do is to talk to her about it. Things don't go away on their own.

And about the boyfriend flirty thing just tell her it really bothers you when she flirts with your other friends boyfriend, because that's not what friends do. You can't really stop her flirting with the boy you like though, because he isn't your boyfriend or anything so she isn't really doing anything wrong.

 

[ninabab]

yeah i kno what you meen

but

we r in a big grrop and she kinda always has a best friend in the groop

and when it was my friend whos a skater she was a skater

when she was with another one who was emo she was emo

when she was with me she was hippyish

hmm

:S

 

[fluffums]

yeah i kno what you meenbut

we r in a big grrop and she kinda always has a best friend in the groop

and when it was my friend whos a skater she was a skater

when she was with another one who was emo she was emo

when she was with me she was hippyish

hmm

:S

Is she still copying what you do? Say to her one day "It really bothers me when you and like everything I do. I think it's nice that you want to be like me, but it's kind of annyoing, and I would like you to stop." And then maybe you could have your other friend talk to her about her flirting with your friend's boyfriend.

 

[TamaMum]

"Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery"

that's a well-known saying and it's kind of true

ppl tend to copy because they like what they see, think it's a great idea and want to join in

maybe your friend does it to demonstrate how much you mean to her ?

maybe she likes and respects you so much she wants to be just like you?

don't be too hard on her

 

[ninabab]

oh aww thats a nice way to look at it



thanks

 

[Tamasluvfritos99]

Ya, I had a friend like that.

Annoying, she copied everything, I did.

I kept telling her "Stop coping what I do!".

And she keeps telling me "If someone copies what you do, that means they like your ideas".

I got so angry, and fed up with it.

That I told her "look if you keep coping me even once more then were not friends anymore".

She said "ok, fine you could have just told me to stop".

I said "I always do tell you to stop!".

BUT that doesn't mean you should do that.

You should tell her to stop coping you in a serious voice

And tell her to find her own personality.