mimitchis_rock13579
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OK well I have a friend. Let's call her M for now. I also have a boyfriend, we'll call him C for now. M has been my best friend for four years, and seemingly even like a sister rather than a friend beginning about 1 1/2 years ago. She's inspired me to aim for becoming a vet, go vegetarian, join the swim team, to name a few. But my friend doesn't know that I'm dating C. I have been going out with C for almost two weeks. I'd gone out with C before, in 7th grade, but once M found out she made me break up with C because he, as M said, would hurt me. IDK how, she didn't say.
I think M is becoming a little overbearing. For example when I tell her I like a guy, she says something to make me unhappy or insecure about liking said guy. It's happened four times over the past year. She's even petty about food (she made me give up chocolate for Lent this year).
Sometimes I think my sister, Christina, was right. She made up a theory that M is jealous of me because
I need advice, as I already said: what should I do? Should I tell M about C, or perhaps that I think M is jealous of me, or maybe break up with C (again), or what?
Thank you for your advice and time,
Alyssa
I think M is becoming a little overbearing. For example when I tell her I like a guy, she says something to make me unhappy or insecure about liking said guy. It's happened four times over the past year. She's even petty about food (she made me give up chocolate for Lent this year).
Sometimes I think my sister, Christina, was right. She made up a theory that M is jealous of me because
- I got into Algebra I, an advanced course, this year and she didn't
- My parents aren't divorced
- I've had more boyfriends than her
- I've never had acne
- My family is richer than hers
- I got 2nd out of my school in the Geo Bee
I need advice, as I already said: what should I do? Should I tell M about C, or perhaps that I think M is jealous of me, or maybe break up with C (again), or what?
Thank you for your advice and time,
Alyssa