Umm, I wouldn't have gone out with this Ryan in the first place, I would feel awkward, going out with a guy I've known nearly my whole life and don't like in
that way. Break up before it gets too serious, otherwise you really
will break his heart
And if Gary realises you're single, maybe he'll take the hint. Just don't let him break up with his girlfriend, then ask you out on the same day (that's what this guy did to me and one of my BFFL). Don't get rushed into a realtionship, just wait at least a few weeks before saying yes to anyone, because it will make Ryan sad, maybe he'll think you were using him.
Are you actually sure Gary likes you in that way? Maybe he thinks you are a really great friend
But I'm just trying to make up excuses in case you dump Ryan and everything goes wrong cause Gary didn't like you that way...
Dang, HE LIKES YOU. (Not that it's a bad thing for you, but because it does complicate things..
)
Do what you thinks best.
Best Wishes
barky
Edit: Fudgecakes, I didn't see the second page for some bizarre reason... Umm, well don't let Gary pressurize (sp?) you.. Take it at your own pace