The matchmaker visiting times are 10:30 AM, 3:00 PM, and 7:00 PM. On the Connection V3 she would beep when she arrived, then wait on your screen for quite a while (about 15 minutes) waiting for you to press a button. On the Connection V4, she beeps when she arrives, then if you don't press a button within 10 seconds (yes, really) she leaves.