matchmaker usually comes when your tama is 5 yrs. Usually comes a day after it turns 5 or sometimes the same day. For me, the matchmaker came the same day that my tama turned 5 yrs at 430pm. The time is you set it to is 429pm and wait a minute and at 430pm the matchmaker will come and ask if you want to marry. If the matchmaker doesn't come at 430pm, wait a day or so and try again.