okay
1)go to book icon
2)go down to present
3)click food or item, then wrap
4)go to connect icon on both of yalls
5)click present on both of yalls and connect
Note:if it says 'sorry, list is full' it might be because your brother's item list is full. your brother will have to trash one of his items. to do this go to the book icon and go to present, then click the item you want to trash, then it will say 'wrap?' click the 'A' button, the button all the way to the left, click it and it will say 'trash?' click it and then click yes and then the item is trashed. see if that will help
sincerely,Tamapal3000