Sticky Situation

[KatAttack.xx]

Okay, so naturally you've heard about me and and Andres.

Well, also that i'm moving (8 days.)

Well, today we went to the movies.

Where we ending up making out for like, three hours straight. xD

Anyway, he gave me a bag with all the gifts he had wanted to give me over the year.

(Christmas, 6 Month Anniversary, Birthday, Valentines day, etc.)

I wasn't supposed to open it. But I wasn't gunna last until the 7th. xD

So,

It consisted of;

A drawing (A heart with my name in it)

A keychain with my name.

A bracelet with my name,

A cross necklace,

Another keychain with "Andres and Tara 6-7-09" on it.

And,

His class ring.

I started crying, and I don't cry.

Now don't get me wrong, I love him to death, seriously.

But I can't take his ring, it's not that I don't want it. Because I do. A lot.

I just feel like taking it would be.... I dunno. I just feel like I can't.

But then again, giving it back would be like. One HUGE rejection.

And god knows I don't want that, no.

Any ideas?

Thank you so much <3

 

[Decode]

[SIZE=7pt]Keep it.[/SIZE]

He's giving it to you for a specific reason. He wants you to always be carrying a piece of him with you when you move away. I can tell this was a surprise for you, and I think he would really appreciate it if you kept it. Either way- he'll never accept it back from you. Andres wants to know that you'll always be thinking of him in this new place and never forget him ( :

 

[Cinderpelt]

I'm assuming you're moving some distance away from Andres. Not like, a few miles down the road.

The major issue is if you're willing for a long distance relationship. They're hard work. You have to be committed 110% of the way. If you're not willing to commit, don't take his stuff. It's not fair to him. Just be up front about it. It's better in the long run.

If you're willing to commit and work, then there is nothing wrong with taking his stuff. Don't send him mixed messages by giving his stuff back but still wanting to be "together." You're right, that is insulting.

So if you want to be with him, take it. If you don't, give it back.

 

[KatAttack.xx]

Thanks a lot guys <3

Decode;

It's like you know him personally. ahaha. He wouldn't accept it back, I'd have to tie him down and force him.

And Katie;

Yes, I'm 110% commited, and I know for sure he is too.

That's one thing I love about you though, you're brutally honest. And it's easier to take advice that way. When people lay it straight out in front of me. It's yes or no. So thank you <3