temari_sensei_girl
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Ok, first things first I'll go ahead and say I'm 15 and in the 9th grade. So no one will ask.
I have this dilemma. I have a liking to a good bunch of boys and.. well, 3/5 know it... lol. I know that 1 of them most certainly likes me back, one hates me, 2 don't even agnolidge my excitance more than a casual hello, and one of them... well lets just say he's probably just as confused as I am... let me give you some details. There's something amazing about all of them, but there's always something that keeps them apart from me and it's driving me insane..
(names are made up to protect identity)
1.) Gregory- Gregory is the one that I know loves me back. He's 14 years old and in the 9th grade. We went out once for about 6 months and STILL like each other VERY much, but the reason we broke up is because he moved to California (I like in Arkansas. Get the picture?). Anyways, I still keep in touch with him, but it's hard. This one is the closest and the farthest from me at the same time.
2.) Joshua- He's just recently graduated from his senior year and is planning to go to college soon. He's one of the most godly men I've ever met in my entire life and I don't think I will ever meet someone that closely with the same skill on the eguitar as him. He doesn't know I like him, but I really do. The major problem is the age difference and the fact I know he'd never like me in that way. TT__TT
3.) Cory- That casual boy that walks through the hallways that you know almost nothing about but still have a crush on him... Yeah, not really worth anything, just he doesn't know I exist.
4.) Christian- I went out with this guy not too long ago. He's 16 and in the 10th grade. He hates me. Well, not really, but he says that all the time, we still hang out a bunch. The main reason that I can't go out with him (and probably the reason he broke up with me) is that he isn't a christian (ironic for the fake name I chose for him). My father is a pastor. Put the pieces together.
5.) Darwin- Um... He's 17 and in the 11th grade. I just recently admitted I have a crush on him and have been really "close" to him recently. To the point it scares him to be exact. This is the guy I currently have my eyes set on closely. I'm just worried about what my parents would think if I started to go out with him though, because even though he's a christian he still drinks and smokes and is showing no sign of stopping any time soon.
Any tips, especially if you're a guy and probably could fit in these guy's shoes.
I have this dilemma. I have a liking to a good bunch of boys and.. well, 3/5 know it... lol. I know that 1 of them most certainly likes me back, one hates me, 2 don't even agnolidge my excitance more than a casual hello, and one of them... well lets just say he's probably just as confused as I am... let me give you some details. There's something amazing about all of them, but there's always something that keeps them apart from me and it's driving me insane..
(names are made up to protect identity)
1.) Gregory- Gregory is the one that I know loves me back. He's 14 years old and in the 9th grade. We went out once for about 6 months and STILL like each other VERY much, but the reason we broke up is because he moved to California (I like in Arkansas. Get the picture?). Anyways, I still keep in touch with him, but it's hard. This one is the closest and the farthest from me at the same time.
2.) Joshua- He's just recently graduated from his senior year and is planning to go to college soon. He's one of the most godly men I've ever met in my entire life and I don't think I will ever meet someone that closely with the same skill on the eguitar as him. He doesn't know I like him, but I really do. The major problem is the age difference and the fact I know he'd never like me in that way. TT__TT
3.) Cory- That casual boy that walks through the hallways that you know almost nothing about but still have a crush on him... Yeah, not really worth anything, just he doesn't know I exist.
4.) Christian- I went out with this guy not too long ago. He's 16 and in the 10th grade. He hates me. Well, not really, but he says that all the time, we still hang out a bunch. The main reason that I can't go out with him (and probably the reason he broke up with me) is that he isn't a christian (ironic for the fake name I chose for him). My father is a pastor. Put the pieces together.
5.) Darwin- Um... He's 17 and in the 11th grade. I just recently admitted I have a crush on him and have been really "close" to him recently. To the point it scares him to be exact. This is the guy I currently have my eyes set on closely. I'm just worried about what my parents would think if I started to go out with him though, because even though he's a christian he still drinks and smokes and is showing no sign of stopping any time soon.
Any tips, especially if you're a guy and probably could fit in these guy's shoes.
!). As I said, I am also in a situation like yours. This is what I've been doing for, what, months? I'll admit that it is a slow process, but isn't taking a little time to evaluate better than just jumping into a relationship that could turn out badly?
