Okay calm down. The violetchi MOM is Violetchi the daughters older mom. She always waers a dress.The dad looks like the son except with a hat. Thats how you tell the difference.Second, Pure Familys' children evolve into a certain teenager and adult. Which is the name of the family (Mame Family-Mametchi and Chamametchi). They do this after 1 hour. And 3rd, to keep the Violet Family , you need to raise the bondage to 100% and marry Violetchi to Sukatchi. If you dont, you'll either get the smart ot blended family, depending on who you married Violetchi to. Hope I helped
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