Tamagirl_Desy
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I've been really into this guy for the past month or so... and we just started dating. We had only hung out once before we started dating, and we had a lot of fun. I know I should have gotten to know him better, but it was Valentines day and he asked me out... so I said yes. We hung out again yesterday at the movies... and he took things a little too far. He wouldn't stop making out with me when I told him to stop, and kept making inappropriate moves on me. We were in PUBLIC, so I felt a little weird. I told him to stop, but he said, "Come on baby.." and kept going. I ended up leaving early, telling him I felt sick. Now, I'm a bit confused.
I felt very uncomfortable with him last night, which I hadn't felt the first time... and I don't know, I just feel kind of frightened by him. He tells me how he has a "violent side", and that he beats up guys when they get him mad. He also tends to get very moody when I talk to him, and gets mad when I tell him I'm going to a friends house or something.
I'd feel horrible ending the relationship so soon, since we JUST started dating.
And he keeps telling me how much he loves me and he wants me "forever",
and that if we broke up he'd start cutting himself again or do something even worse.
So I feel sort of trapped. |:
I do like him, I really do... I'm just not ready to commit myself. But he doesn't understand that.
Is there anything I can do to get out of this mess?
I felt very uncomfortable with him last night, which I hadn't felt the first time... and I don't know, I just feel kind of frightened by him. He tells me how he has a "violent side", and that he beats up guys when they get him mad. He also tends to get very moody when I talk to him, and gets mad when I tell him I'm going to a friends house or something.
I'd feel horrible ending the relationship so soon, since we JUST started dating.
And he keeps telling me how much he loves me and he wants me "forever",
and that if we broke up he'd start cutting himself again or do something even worse.
So I feel sort of trapped. |:
I do like him, I really do... I'm just not ready to commit myself. But he doesn't understand that.
Is there anything I can do to get out of this mess?