I had a teenager and I looked after her really well apart from like...an hour in the morning and that was it. I played games with her ALL DAY, made sure she was fed (but not fat) made sure I praised her when she practised and let her play every so often, we went out, shopping and everything and she still turned out to be a horrible care tama according to the growth chart D: What did I do wrong? Did that one hour really ruin the whole thing?