Kawaii-Kitty
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Okay, I know that there are a lot of friend problem topics, but I need help.
Well, I'm not a person to turn the whole story around and make the friend seem like the bad one. I will try my hardest to be honest, and real. I wont over-exadurate(sp?) anything, and I'll keep it in my full point of view with fairness to both sides.
Lets get down to the basics, the abriviations(sp?) for each friend in the story:
M = Friend I'm having problems with
K = Friend whos sticking by me on this whole thing
A = Friend whos sticking by M on this whole thing
I hope these letters don't confuzzle you.
Alright, here's the story:
Me and M were best best best friends. She started gossiping about me, for about 6 months we took a break from our friendship. During those 6 months, K was M became best friends. Just about 2 weeks ago, me and M became best friends again. But, me and K have discovered things.
Are you fallowing me? Good.
K told me that M has been acting like my friend, but gossips about me whenever she's around K
I told K that M has being gossiping about her, whenever M was around me.
This was not right...
We decided that she has been calling us names, and other things. We weren't trying to gossip, but as we figured these things out, we got mad.
The next day, me and K hung out all day. We didn't really say much to M, but we didn't completely ignore her. But we mostly hung out with a lot of other people. Is that wrong to be nice to M, but give other people as much attention? I didn't think so.
M got mad.
M told A (remember A?) that we were being mean. But I cant thing of 1 bad thing we did... At all! We said hi and talked to her, just not as much.
A didn't give us a chance. She was sticking by M.
Today, she's just being a bully. Literally. No joke. BULLY
When I walked by her, she did that fake cough and said "Backstabber" so it was like {*cough* backstabber *cough*}She was with A when she did that. I turned around --luckly this wasn't in class, but it was outside of the school, us 7th graders have to walk outside to get to another class on the other side of school)
So, I turned around and yelled "I can hear you, retard!" I maybe shouldn't of said that, but she was plain mean...
She walked inside and laughed as hard as she can. A didn't say anything.
Then, after science, me and K were leaving the room. K dropped her book, and bent down to pick it up. While she was down there, M set her binder down, used both hands and pushed K to the floor. Again, A didn't say anything.
And later, in another CLASS, I walked by her, and she did the same cough thing but said: {*cough* jack a*s *cough*} I turned to her and did that same annoying coughing thing and I said {*cough* I can hear you! *cough*} she turned to A and said "Duh she can hear me, or she'd be f***ing retarded!" Then, a girl whos not my friend walked by M, came back next to me and said "M is talking about you... a lot..."
Then, later on the bus, A told us that M's taking it too far, and she wont tell her why she's mad at us. She says she wont stop cussing about us, and it's really rude. She apologized for not letting us give our story...
This is upsetting me >.> What should I do?
Well, I'm not a person to turn the whole story around and make the friend seem like the bad one. I will try my hardest to be honest, and real. I wont over-exadurate(sp?) anything, and I'll keep it in my full point of view with fairness to both sides.
Lets get down to the basics, the abriviations(sp?) for each friend in the story:
M = Friend I'm having problems with
K = Friend whos sticking by me on this whole thing
A = Friend whos sticking by M on this whole thing
I hope these letters don't confuzzle you.
Alright, here's the story:
Me and M were best best best friends. She started gossiping about me, for about 6 months we took a break from our friendship. During those 6 months, K was M became best friends. Just about 2 weeks ago, me and M became best friends again. But, me and K have discovered things.
Are you fallowing me? Good.
K told me that M has been acting like my friend, but gossips about me whenever she's around K
I told K that M has being gossiping about her, whenever M was around me.
This was not right...
We decided that she has been calling us names, and other things. We weren't trying to gossip, but as we figured these things out, we got mad.
The next day, me and K hung out all day. We didn't really say much to M, but we didn't completely ignore her. But we mostly hung out with a lot of other people. Is that wrong to be nice to M, but give other people as much attention? I didn't think so.
M got mad.
M told A (remember A?) that we were being mean. But I cant thing of 1 bad thing we did... At all! We said hi and talked to her, just not as much.
A didn't give us a chance. She was sticking by M.
Today, she's just being a bully. Literally. No joke. BULLY
When I walked by her, she did that fake cough and said "Backstabber" so it was like {*cough* backstabber *cough*}She was with A when she did that. I turned around --luckly this wasn't in class, but it was outside of the school, us 7th graders have to walk outside to get to another class on the other side of school)
So, I turned around and yelled "I can hear you, retard!" I maybe shouldn't of said that, but she was plain mean...
She walked inside and laughed as hard as she can. A didn't say anything.
Then, after science, me and K were leaving the room. K dropped her book, and bent down to pick it up. While she was down there, M set her binder down, used both hands and pushed K to the floor. Again, A didn't say anything.
And later, in another CLASS, I walked by her, and she did the same cough thing but said: {*cough* jack a*s *cough*} I turned to her and did that same annoying coughing thing and I said {*cough* I can hear you! *cough*} she turned to A and said "Duh she can hear me, or she'd be f***ing retarded!" Then, a girl whos not my friend walked by M, came back next to me and said "M is talking about you... a lot..."
Then, later on the bus, A told us that M's taking it too far, and she wont tell her why she's mad at us. She says she wont stop cussing about us, and it's really rude. She apologized for not letting us give our story...
This is upsetting me >.> What should I do?
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