CrowFrost~
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Ok, so most of you here know I like this guy named Michael. Well, I may hove my friend (Kate) over for New Years and I KNOW she likes him. Thing is, we keep fighting, and it basically kills me, we are such good friends too. Well, I just don't want anyone hurt.
I am basically thinking of asking her to be truthfull and tell me if she likes him, if she says yes I am going to call Michael and basically say:
"Look, I like like you, and I have for, five years, but... I don't want to hurt my best friend, and you are one. I promised I wouldn't say anything. But, I refuse to feel more than friends with you." then hang up.
The thing is, it's a lot easier said than done, and I am wondering if I am doing teh right thing if I do it. I love him, I really do. But this, everything above, could ruin my friendship with him, forever, and I don't want that.
The more I think the more I know it's the right thing to do, but it hurts. Any ideas?
I am basically thinking of asking her to be truthfull and tell me if she likes him, if she says yes I am going to call Michael and basically say:
"Look, I like like you, and I have for, five years, but... I don't want to hurt my best friend, and you are one. I promised I wouldn't say anything. But, I refuse to feel more than friends with you." then hang up.
The thing is, it's a lot easier said than done, and I am wondering if I am doing teh right thing if I do it. I love him, I really do. But this, everything above, could ruin my friendship with him, forever, and I don't want that.
The more I think the more I know it's the right thing to do, but it hurts. Any ideas?