deemack199725
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You see I've liked this girl for a long time(see description), and want to either get over her or get her to like me. However I always act like a fool in front of her. What should I do?
Agreed.I say don't get over her,try to show you like her but at the same time try not to act like a fool just think of something elsa
She's one of my best friends. I speak to her often,but not alone. And she may think I'm weird, and she's debating wether or not i'm a girl(just to bug me).A few questions:1) Are you friends with the girl? Have you spoken for the girl for more than a few minutes?
2) Does the girl dislike you?
Agreed 3,001%.As many have already said, being friends with the girl first is a good idea. Girls tend to be more up for going out with guys who they already know (I'm a girl). Though I also know a lot of girls who will go out with just about anyone. But personally, being a girl myself, I prefer going out with guys who are friends to start out with. Getting involved in a relationship with a guy who she is familiar with makes a girl feel more secure and a lot more confident.
So my advice to you is to be nice and friendly with this girl, and try to establish a solid friendship that you can eventually build a boy/girlfriend relationship from.
Oh, and about "making her like you", you can't really force the girl to like you. "Liking" liking comes naturally.
There's some boys that I like .
There's boys who I just don't like .
There's boys who I like as friends but not as boyfriends .
Girls have different opinions about different boys, and those opinions usually don't change too much over time. The best thing that you can do is be nice to the girl, and get on her good side. Then it will be up to her if she likes you as a potential boyfriend or not.
Good luck !
I would NEVER force her to do anythingAs many have already said, being friends with the girl first is a good idea. Girls tend to be more up for going out with guys who they already know (I'm a girl). Though I also know a lot of girls who will go out with just about anyone. But personally, being a girl myself, I prefer going out with guys who are friends to start out with. Getting involved in a relationship with a guy who she is familiar with makes a girl feel more secure and a lot more confident.
So my advice to you is to be nice and friendly with this girl, and try to establish a solid friendship that you can eventually build a boy/girlfriend relationship from.
Oh, and about "making her like you", you can't really force the girl to like you. "Liking" liking comes naturally.
There's some boys that I like .
There's boys who I just don't like .
There's boys who I like as friends but not as boyfriends .
Girls have different opinions about different boys, and those opinions usually don't change too much over time. The best thing that you can do is be nice to the girl, and get on her good side. Then it will be up to her if she likes you as a potential boyfriend or not.
Good luck !
Sorry if I was being mean. Thanks for the help, but now I know from her brother that she's just afraid to love.1.) I would NEVER force her to do anything2.) I said get her to like me not make her like me. Meaning convince not force
Ha, sounds like a soap opera. "To afraid to love." XD I don't offer much advise on this type of thing.Sorry if I was being mean. Thanks for the help, but now I know from her brother that she's just afraid to love.
Ask her to go to a dance with you or at least tell her you like her. If she has a boyfriend then wait till she doesn't or try to find someone else to like.You see I've liked this girl for a long time(see description), and want to either get over her or get her to like me. However I always act like a fool in front of her. What should I do?
What if there isn't a dance?Ask her to go to a dance with you or at least tell her you like her. If she has a boyfriend then wait till she doesn't or try to find someone else to like.
Aww, thank you for complimenting my advice, Squidward is Cool!Agreed 3,001%.
Liking is natural. It's random and lucky if two people like each other.
Also, like Memetchi Dreamer, I also feel more comfortable with guys I'm friendly with, even though that's just people in my band class.
And I know, you already said she's your buddy, but this is good advice.
Aww. I'm sorry that your feelings weren't returned by this girl, but I'm glad that you're happy for her. Knowing that you still think good things about her despite what you have been through will make her very happy . I'm sure of it.Its cool, she may like another guy. Me and another friend are trying to get them together. I'm happy if she's happy.
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