Tamagirl_Desy
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Me and my ex best friend got into a huge fight the other day.
And I say "ex" because lately we've both kind of drifted apart, and she's changed alot.
She isn't the person she used to be.
In the fight, she asked me what was wrong. So I told her. Everything. Why I had been so sad lately, and why I wasnt acting like myself... that I'm depressed and I just don't know what to do. I thought she'd understand and just listen to me, comfort me... instead, she started swearing at me and saying I was being stupid and too emotional and a whole bunch of stuff like that. She said she "was glad we weren't close friends anymore". Her words hurt me so much, and I got even more upset than I was before.
I began crying and said that she wasnt the same person anymore, and started saying angry things I don't remember now.
Ever since then, we haven't talked at all.
She won't even look at me. I miss her... even if she did really hurt me emotionally.
We've been friends for almost 9 years, and now it's suddenly changed.
We got into many fights before, but its different this time.
I talked to her today, apoligizing and saying I was sorry for anything I said to hurt her, and that I just wanted to become friends again. All she did was yell at me some more, and say rude things. I wanted to cry but I just let it go and apoligized again, and asked if we could just forget it happened and move on.
All she said was "i don't know, just don't talk to me."
So what do I do? Was this my fault?
And I say "ex" because lately we've both kind of drifted apart, and she's changed alot.
She isn't the person she used to be.
In the fight, she asked me what was wrong. So I told her. Everything. Why I had been so sad lately, and why I wasnt acting like myself... that I'm depressed and I just don't know what to do. I thought she'd understand and just listen to me, comfort me... instead, she started swearing at me and saying I was being stupid and too emotional and a whole bunch of stuff like that. She said she "was glad we weren't close friends anymore". Her words hurt me so much, and I got even more upset than I was before.
I began crying and said that she wasnt the same person anymore, and started saying angry things I don't remember now.
Ever since then, we haven't talked at all.
She won't even look at me. I miss her... even if she did really hurt me emotionally.
We've been friends for almost 9 years, and now it's suddenly changed.
We got into many fights before, but its different this time.
I talked to her today, apoligizing and saying I was sorry for anything I said to hurt her, and that I just wanted to become friends again. All she did was yell at me some more, and say rude things. I wanted to cry but I just let it go and apoligized again, and asked if we could just forget it happened and move on.
All she said was "i don't know, just don't talk to me."
So what do I do? Was this my fault?